I recall my first deployment as a social worker for an NGO in a remote village. Our small plane landed on the snowy airport, I saw children and women standing around the airport holding ropes and sacks, were porters. I was guided to the office from the airport on a two-hour walk, and a woman approached me on the way, showing me her badly infected and wounded hand. I was unable to fully examine the wound because it was too infected. She believed that any pills or medicine could heal her wound, but at that time I couldn't help her immediately, I was afraid. Later, we organized a few medical camps in many villages to provide aid. This incident deeply disturbed me, and I remember asking my father why he had migrated from the mountain to the flat land called Kailali, where I grew up. As he took me to my birthplace village in the mountain, he smiled and told me that the reason for the migration was to provide a better life for me and my brothers and to send us to school. At the time, I d...
The act of making choices is unique to each individual and can be a complex process. It is a mental state that we are responsible for. The choices we make can be simple or difficult depending on the situation, and a well-thought-out decision can lead to success, while a rushed one may lead to regret. In fact, the average person makes 35,000 choices per day and 2,000 decisions per hour. Having multiple options available can make the decision-making process more attractive, but it's important to keep in mind that our choices shape our life experiences. There are good and bad choices; sometimes, the options are clear, but not always. We all know what we need and want, but that doesn't mean we always make the right choice. It's a long-term mental process that takes practice and experience. The more we think about life's value, the more we understand it, and the less we will be swayed by external influences. Rushing through the decision making process increases the risk of m...